What about you, champion?

What about you, champion?

Blokes, contrary to what society has trained in us, imposed upon us, or passed down to us such as, ‘toughen up princess’, or ‘take a spoonful of cement and toughen up’, or ‘big boys don’t cry’, it’s OK to have a red-hot look at your heart and see what hurts are in there.

It’s never too late because the girl of your dreams and others around you will benefit greatly from your new free and open heart. You won’t go backwards.

Fellas, we might have been covering up our hearts for so long that we can be totally unaware of our hearts of stone. Our outer bloke remains loving, but nothing is happening in the heart department.

No man is exempt from this heart-to-heart issue. This has been screwing up good men and relationships for too long. We can do a complete 180o by going straight to the top. Ask the Big Fella to put his promise into you as soon as possible, and see things turn around.

Remember, what you have chained up for 20, 30 or 40 years might need to be gently and slowly peeled away, layer by layer, to reach the champion in you, so real-deal dinky-di love can flow.

Dealing with your heart involves your ‘spine, body, spirit and soul’. So when you get around to dealing with your heart, it would be fairly natural not to tell anyone else – especially another bloke who has most likely has been conditioned by manhood to toughen up too.

You may even try to deny yourself the new feelings in your heart because you have never before ventured out of your head. Take it gently! You’ll enjoy your new heart and so will everyone else around you, especially your woman.

We blokes most times don’t get off the merry-go-round of life or stop in the one place long enough to even hear the soft whispers from our hearts.

It takes guts and courage to let it come out.